The Ties that Bind
Thursday, June 30th, 2011Every summer my two nephews from Oklahoma come and stay a week on the ranch. They are 10 and 8 years old, which are great ages for exploring and enjoying the outdoors. Their ages also fit in nicely with my five children, whose ages range from 15 to 3. Whenever we have visitors, it is fun to see the ranch through their eyes. My kids especially like to show-off the fun that our ranch has to offer.
Whether you call it hiking, exploring, or walking, being able to enjoy the countryside is certainly a pleasant experience. In the cool of the morning or the evening is when we like to talk a walk. Who needs a park when you have creeks to cross, hills to climb, vines to swing on, and tanks to wade in? From open pastures to the deep woods, there is plenty to find, observe, and see.
Watching nature from the cabin is another delight to any visitor. It is birthing season for the deer right now. We have a deer feeder stocked with corn for our favorite wild animals in a bottom pasture. Getting to see the baby fawns with their mothers is a joy. Barn swallows have built a nest on my front porch. They have raised four baby birds, which are just about ready to leave the nest.
The kids on horseback stumbled upon a spot where the feral hogs have been keeping cool during this extreme drought. I guess I should say that the horses found it. The horses began snorting, whinnying, and prancing around, which was odd behavior for them. The kids looked closer and found a sow and several piglets bedded down and sleeping. Fortunately, our children left them alone and told us. We know where to place a live trap for the hogs now.
The boys slept outside on the deck. Falling asleep while stargazing is always peaceful and enjoyable. We have not had rain so mosquitoes are not a concern; however, a campfire was completely out of the question. The nighttime sounds on the ranch are usually pleasant. The croaking of the tree frogs, the occasional hoot of an owl, and the gentle swaying of the pine boughs in the breeze all act as a lullaby. Partly due to the activity of the day and partly due to the coolness of the evening, all the boys slept nice and sound.
As with most visitors on the ranch, we include you in the daily chores. My nephews enjoyed checking on the herd, feeding them alfalfa cubes, and feeding the horses. One nephew and my son helped my husband and I pen up a steer that found itself on the wrong side of the fence. He was in my neighbors pasture. Luckily, it did not require much encouragement to get him in the correct pasture. After that, they helped us weigh all of the calves in our grass fed beef program. My nephew was quite impressed with the scale on the chute.
I don’t know who is going to be more sad when the week is up and life has to return back to normal, my boys or my nephews. We have completely enjoyed visiting with our extended family members. We have enjoyed including them in our ranch life. They have visited, played, worked together, and enjoyed the outdoors. Hopefully they will always look fondly on these days when they grow up into adulthood. Weeks like this are the ties that bind a family together. May you and your family have similar summer experiences.


